Three Wedding Trends I'm Totally Over

I thought I had it all figured out when I got engaged. I knew just exactly what kind of wedding I wanted. I thought, "Wow, this is gonna be so easy."

Was I ever naive.

Here are three trends I thought I liked but now (after seeing them over and again at weddings, on blogs, in magazines) I simple can't stand.

The Birdcage Veil

I thought I loved, really LOVED, the birdcage veil. It's the veil for the not-so-traditional bride. It's cute, it's coy, it's chic. And I was certain I'd wear one at my own wedding. But since the return of the birdcage, this trend is everywhere, and I'm tired of it.

The Reception Dress

There's nothing more fun than a short, hot dress, and this little Melissa Sweet number (via Priscilla of Boston, $2000) is as fun as they come. But why do you need two wedding dresses? Why not save the hot LWD for your honeymoon? Or showcase it at your bridal shower?

As for me, I just want one dress that makes me feel like a princess or a movie star—preferably both. Besides, your wedding isn't a fashion show or a photo shoot; costume changes are not necessary.

The French Manicure

Yes, it's pretty and it's classic. It's also hopelessly outdated. Besides, even the tiniest chips on the white tips are noticeable. A bright color is more fun, and a matte nude is more modern.

What trends are you tired of? Which trends are must-haves at your wedding?